{"id":54917,"date":"2018-09-01T12:41:42","date_gmt":"2018-09-01T09:41:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.giurgiuveanul.ro\/stiri\/?p=54917"},"modified":"2018-09-01T12:41:42","modified_gmt":"2018-09-01T09:41:42","slug":"imi-este-teama-sa-ma-casatoresc-ce-sa-fac","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.giurgiuveanul.ro\/stiri\/imi-este-teama-sa-ma-casatoresc-ce-sa-fac\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00cemi este team\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 c\u0103s\u0103toresc. Ce s\u0103 fac?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.giurgiuveanul.ro\/stiri\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/\u00cemi-este-team\u0103-s\u0103-m\u0103-c\u0103s\u0103toresc.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-54918\" src=\"https:\/\/www.giurgiuveanul.ro\/stiri\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/\u00cemi-este-team\u0103-s\u0103-m\u0103-c\u0103s\u0103toresc-560x420.jpg\" alt=\"\u00cemi este team\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 c\u0103s\u0103toresc\" width=\"560\" height=\"420\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.giurgiuveanul.ro\/stiri\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/\u00cemi-este-team\u0103-s\u0103-m\u0103-c\u0103s\u0103toresc-560x420.jpg 560w, https:\/\/www.giurgiuveanul.ro\/stiri\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/\u00cemi-este-team\u0103-s\u0103-m\u0103-c\u0103s\u0103toresc-250x188.jpg 250w, https:\/\/www.giurgiuveanul.ro\/stiri\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/\u00cemi-este-team\u0103-s\u0103-m\u0103-c\u0103s\u0103toresc-400x300.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.giurgiuveanul.ro\/stiri\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/\u00cemi-este-team\u0103-s\u0103-m\u0103-c\u0103s\u0103toresc.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 560px) 100vw, 560px\" \/><\/a>Teama de <!--more-->c\u0103s\u0103torie este un fenomen foarte r\u0103sp\u00e2ndit mai ales \u00een r\u00e2ndul femeilor foarte tinere, dar acesta poate ap\u0103rea \u0219i la b\u0103rba\u021bi sau la femei ceva mai experimentate \u00eentr-ale amorului. Teama de c\u0103s\u0103torie este, de fapt, o team\u0103 de schimbare: c\u0103s\u0103toria este etapa urm\u0103toare a unei rela\u021bii de iubire \u0219i este o etap\u0103 de evolu\u021bie, c\u0103ci un astfel de angajament are multiple consecin\u021be care se vor reflecta \u00een rela\u021bia de cuplu.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Dac\u0103 v\u0103 este team\u0103 de o poten\u021bial\u0103 c\u0103s\u0103torie nu trebuie s\u0103 ave\u021bi \u00eendoieli \u00een ceea ce prive\u0219te sentimentele fa\u021b\u0103 de partenerul vostru. Aceast\u0103 team\u0103 ia na\u0219tere la nivel psihologic, din consierente exclusiv personale potrivit <a href=\"http:\/\/mireasa-perfecta.ro\">mireasa-perfecta.ro<\/a> . Este posibil s\u0103 manifesta\u021bi o oarecare atitudine egoist\u0103 pentru c\u0103 v\u0103 g\u00e2ndi\u021bi la propria persoan\u0103 \u0219i la schimb\u0103rile pe care va trebui s\u0103 le face\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Cum se manifest\u0103 teama de c\u0103s\u0103torie?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">De cele mai multe ori o femeie resimte aceast\u0103 senza\u021bie de team\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 din momentul \u00een care este cerut\u0103 \u00een c\u0103s\u0103torie. Dac\u0103 momentul mult a\u0219teptat se transform\u0103 \u00eentr-o situa\u021bie st\u00e2njenitoare pe care nu \u0219ti\u021bi s\u0103 o gestiona\u021bi \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 teama de c\u0103s\u0103torie se instaleaz\u0103. Este foarte important s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba\u021bi s\u0103 controla\u021bi tot ceea ce vi se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103. Exist\u0103 c\u00e2teva a\u0219a-zise \u201esimptome\u201d care denot\u0103 c\u0103 v\u0103 confrunta\u021bi cu teama de c\u0103s\u0103torie \u0219i pe care le pute\u021bi sesiza cu u\u0219urin\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n<ul style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<li>Divergen\u021be cu partenerul de via\u021b\u0103 \u2013 este un semn clar c\u0103 v\u0103 este team\u0103 de momentul c\u0103s\u0103toriei, iar aceast\u0103 team\u0103 se va r\u0103sfr\u00e2nge asupra rela\u021biei de cuplu. Dac\u0103 v\u0103 certa\u021bi des, din motive lipsite de importan\u021b\u0103, dac\u0103 sim\u021bi\u021bi c\u0103 nu mai sunte\u021bi pe aceea\u0219i lungime de und\u0103 \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 v\u0103 teme\u021bi de c\u0103s\u0103torie.<\/li>\n<li>Sim\u021bi\u021bi nevoia de mai mult\u0103 intimitate \u2013 dac\u0103 obi\u0219nuia\u021bi s\u0103 petrece\u021bi foarte mult timp \u00een doi, iar dup\u0103 cererea \u00een c\u0103s\u0103torie acest lucru nu v\u0103 mai place la fel de mult este posibil s\u0103 v\u0103 teme\u021bi de viitoarea c\u0103s\u0103torie. Aceast\u0103 team\u0103 se manifest\u0103 prin nevoia de mai mult\u0103 intimitate, printr-o atitudine solitar\u0103. Ave\u021bi grij\u0103 s\u0103 nu afecta\u021bi, \u00een acest mod, rela\u021bia cu partenerul de cuplu.<\/li>\n<li>Stres \u0219i irascibilitate \u2013 dac\u0103 dup\u0103 momentul cererii \u00een c\u0103s\u0103torie se instaleaz\u0103 st\u0103ri de agita\u021bie, de stres, de sensibilitate nervoas\u0103, cel mai probabil v\u0103 confrunta\u021bi cu teama de c\u0103s\u0103torie. Organizarea marelui eveniment v\u0103 solicit\u0103 resursele de energie \u0219i v\u0103 poate crea disconfort \u00een acest sens. De aici \u0219i senza\u021bia de team\u0103.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Cum sc\u0103p\u0103m de teama de c\u0103s\u0103torie?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Din momentul \u00een care a\u021bi con\u0219tientizat c\u0103 v\u0103 este team\u0103 de c\u0103s\u0103torie trebuie s\u0103 recurge\u021bi la c\u00e2teva metode pentru a combate acest sentiment. De cele mai multe ori acestea se rezum\u0103 la comunicare. Nu este cazul s\u0103 v\u0103 \u00eengrijora\u021bi sau s\u0103 v\u0103 panica\u021bi. Treptat, acest sentiment va disp\u0103rea, dac\u0103 urma\u021bi c\u00e2\u021biva pa\u0219i simpli.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">Discuta\u021bi cu partenerul \u2013 c\u00e2nd v\u0103 decide\u021bi s\u0103 \u00eei spune\u021bi partenerului de via\u021b\u0103 c\u0103 v\u0103 este team\u0103 de o viitoare c\u0103s\u0103torie trebuie s\u0103 o face\u021bi \u00eentr-un mod delicat, dar sincer pentru a evita ca acesta s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 gre\u0219it. Niciunul dintre voi nu trebuie s\u0103 se \u00eendoiasc\u0103 de sentimentele celuilalt. Este foarte important s\u0103 cere\u021bi ajutorul partenereului pentru a nu dep\u0103\u0219i aceast\u0103 team\u0103 de c\u0103s\u0103torie pe cont propriu.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">Cere\u021bi sfatul femeilor care au trecut prin acela\u0219i lucru \u2013 nu sunte\u021bi nici prima, nici ultima femeie care se confrunt\u0103 cu teama de c\u0103s\u0103torie. Cere\u021bi sfatul celor ce au dep\u0103\u0219it o astfel de situa\u021bie. Ve\u021bi c\u0103p\u0103ta mai mult\u0103 \u00eencredere \u00een voi \u0219i ve\u021bi trece cu bine peste aceast\u0103 pas\u0103.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\">Merge\u021bi la psiholog \u2013 \u00een momentul \u00een care sim\u021bi\u021bi c\u0103 teama de c\u0103s\u0103torie v\u0103 cople\u0219e\u0219te este bine s\u0103 apela\u021bi la un specialist. Ideal este s\u0103 merge\u021bi \u00eempreun\u0103 cu partenerul vostru la c\u00e2teva \u0219edin\u021be de planning familial. \u00cen urma acestora ve\u021bi afla c\u00e2t de compatibili sunte\u021bi pentru o c\u0103s\u0103torie, dar \u0219i cauzele senza\u021biei de team\u0103. Odat\u0103 \u0219tiute cauzele, combaterea va fi doar o chestiune de timp.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Teama de<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-54917","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-special"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giurgiuveanul.ro\/stiri\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54917","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giurgiuveanul.ro\/stiri\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giurgiuveanul.ro\/stiri\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giurgiuveanul.ro\/stiri\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giurgiuveanul.ro\/stiri\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=54917"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.giurgiuveanul.ro\/stiri\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/54917\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giurgiuveanul.ro\/stiri\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=54917"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giurgiuveanul.ro\/stiri\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=54917"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giurgiuveanul.ro\/stiri\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=54917"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}